tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post1740891524378897077..comments2023-10-24T10:09:19.477-07:00Comments on Worshipping Your Wife: Her Wish Is My CommandMark Remondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-26346441265445666252009-04-19T01:03:00.000-07:002009-04-19T01:03:00.000-07:00This may be off topic ,but my favorite commercial ...This may be off topic ,but my favorite commercial on tv a few years back was by reebok i think. It was a series of ads called "it's a women's world" which featured gender role reversal themes while james brown sang "it's a man's world" in the background. my favorite one was where the wife and her girlfriends were watching football on tv ,while the husband vacuumed , fetched drinks and food for the ladies and picked up after them after they lazily and carelessly threw things on the floor.my point is that it was great ,because the wife wasn't telling him what to do ,quite the contrary ,she and her friends ignored him as if he didn't exist, and took him for granted .he was being naturally submissive and obedient without being told.The fact that they simply expected him to wait on them hand and foot and did not even make eye contact with him was the best touch. I'm afraid that i can not find it on youtube.it was the best display of a female led marriage on tv and the best thing was that the women were in jeans and old t-shirts just like normal women dress like .no leather no spiked heels .no leash or whips.no snarling dominatrix. just an obedient husband and a bunch of women having fun. i bet a lot of women probably enjoyed those commercials and more than a few probably wished life was like that all of the time . thanks for the work you do on the blog , sincerly "bob"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-82560578574964558422009-04-04T08:54:00.000-07:002009-04-04T08:54:00.000-07:00Your point is well taken. Communication is somethi...Your point is well taken. Communication is something I struggle with when communicating with my boyfriend. I find myself frustrated when I speak with him and he isn't "picking up what I'm putting down." I believe I have to be more explicit. At least in the short run...Ms. Raynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16152057088042572124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-33998800911522797932009-04-02T09:38:00.000-07:002009-04-02T09:38:00.000-07:00Thank you, At All Times! I was happy to see the si...Thank you, At All Times! I was happy to see the sideways smile punctuating that first sentence of your comment, because I was being playful in saying you could improve your literacy skills. But perhaps I was being a bit presumptive. I also enjoy playing that game, eliciting a more direct do-it-now by NOT responding to my wife's veiled request. I'm enjoying reading a discussion of indirect and "mitigated" speech in Outliers, the book I mentioned in the posting, and how dangerous this kind of indirect speech has been when used by flight crew members of commercial airliners in the face of threatening conditions.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-29731345226431962672009-04-02T03:25:00.000-07:002009-04-02T03:25:00.000-07:00I think Jane's husband knew exactly what he was sa...I think Jane's husband knew exactly what he was saying, and as a result got the type of response he was looking for :-) I know that we would be submissive husbands aren't really suppose to top from the bottom, and the correct answer should have been to offer to go back to the shops straight away, thus demonstrating my willingness to please and bow to Jane’s request more willingly, but subconsciously it’s difficult to not want to have those more direct orders sometimes. <BR/><BR/>I agree with what you say in your entry though, and the more confident and accustomed a wife gets with taking charge and having such a high level of control, then those hints and suggestions, eventually can become direct orders and commands, the wife dispensing with the need to hide her dominance behind a veil of timely suggestions or hints.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com