tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post204550724033568933..comments2023-10-24T10:09:19.477-07:00Comments on Worshipping Your Wife: Whispering the 'P' Word, Part 2Mark Remondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-56889211027348452072013-11-14T09:20:34.004-08:002013-11-14T09:20:34.004-08:00Anonymous, That would be so great! I would be hono...Anonymous, That would be so great! I would be honored to publish any guest posts from you. If you would, please email them to me: markremond@yahoo.comMark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-75327155271118198102013-11-13T20:11:30.382-08:002013-11-13T20:11:30.382-08:00Mr Remond,
Wow, I would love to. I would be happ...Mr Remond, <br /><br />Wow, I would love to. I would be happy to help any woman toward more effective discipline of her home. Thanks Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-70844307133759336212013-11-08T22:13:40.314-08:002013-11-08T22:13:40.314-08:00Anonymous just above - perhaps you would be ineres...Anonymous just above - perhaps you would be inerested in sharing some of your FLR scenes with your boyfriend in a blog post. You write very well indeed, and you certainly know what you are doing when it comes to leading your boyfriend!Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-85106085340702505992013-11-05T21:15:29.223-08:002013-11-05T21:15:29.223-08:00I used to spank my boyfriend all the time. He'...I used to spank my boyfriend all the time. He's a little too tall for it now, I think, but I use other methods. He is not naturally "submissive" I would say, neither is he particularly aggressive, but I have mastered him over time. He is gentle, that is true, and a people-pleaser, I would say. I met him when we were much younger, and I think discipline is absolutely necessary. Spank him, smack his butt, as often as possible, so he knows who is boss. He is there for pleasure, labor, and my comfort and affection. If you don't like corporal punishment there are other things you could try. Sometimes I make mine sleep on the floor until he begs to be let back into bed. At first he was proud and did not want to beg. He would try to "reason", but I made it clear it was not up for discussion. I told him I would let him back in when I thought he learned his lesson. I got an instant change in attitude. I have also used my shoe to discipline him, and have taken away his music time - locked up all instruments and music playing devices - for a week or so until he succumbed and started being a good boy. Also taking his clothes and locking them up is a good choice. Tell him when he behaves you will give them back to him. We don't even "discuss" things anymore. I get this sad, resigned little expression when he knows he's been bad, and when we were younger he would just bend over. By this point I have a wonderful, peaceful household with all the obedience I could wish for.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-49201336730607530292009-10-01T17:06:57.516-07:002009-10-01T17:06:57.516-07:00hornyhubby, I have occasionally boasted about how ...hornyhubby, I have occasionally boasted about how I kicked a typical lifelong masturbation habit "cold turkey" after taking a wife-worship pledge, so completely that I don't even think I can do it. It's not even a temptation. But your comment made me realize that it might not be so easy if my wife had made a practice of teasing and denial, as yours does. That is one aspect of a wife-led marriage that I have proposed to her, but which she never adopted. Would I be so self-controlled if I were taken to the brink on a daily or nightly basis and left hanging there? Might I not be at least tempted to succumb to a ready-to-hand solution? So... yes, I salute you.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-22741933708014292892009-09-30T08:08:29.932-07:002009-09-30T08:08:29.932-07:00I sent in a post 2 weeks ago at the request of my ...I sent in a post 2 weeks ago at the request of my wife. My chastity device has been removed, but I had to wait longer than the 1additional week I had remaining. My wife likes our relationship of WLR so much more without the chastity device, she told me last weekend that she is adding 2 more weeks (making it 7 weeks), because she wants to see how much she can trust me without it on. I have given her my word and a promise that I will NEVER masturbate again. It is her cock and balls to do with as she pleases, she owns them, as well as me. Yes, I am very sensitive and the horny feeling is really getting to me. But if she is testing my devotion to her, I will show her how completely devoted I am to her. I do get teased every day, sometimes just a little, but this week it has been just short of the point of no return. She plays with me at bedtime, then she says "that's all, lets go to sleep". I am allowed to use an ice pack and sometimes fall asleep with it still applied. I have another week to go, my behavior is perfect, so hopefully she won't add more time.HORNYHUBBYnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-65018638746434724352009-09-15T16:31:06.241-07:002009-09-15T16:31:06.241-07:00I'm enjoying all the comments immensely. As fo...I'm enjoying all the comments immensely. As for "hornyhubby," if I could cure my lifelong habit of "self-abuse," and I did almost immediately upon my conversion to "wife worship," I'm convinced any guy can. Not that I wouldn't accept a chastity device, but okay, I'm glad that wasn't required.<br />And Rex, again thanks for pointing people in this direction. May I suggest you start a list of "half-full" accomplishments in your Wife-Led Marriage so far, rather than fixing too much on the "half-empty" part of the glass? Just a suggestion, but you may, as I was, be surprised and encouraged as to how far you've traveled down this memorable path.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-69615378438270272522009-09-14T12:27:53.928-07:002009-09-14T12:27:53.928-07:00Mark,
I'm right there with you in that my wi...Mark, <br /><br />I'm right there with you in that my wife is unwilling to use corporal punishment. My larger concern is how unwilling she is to point out any displeasure she has with me or my service to her.<br /><br /> I agree with second wife: that "I think it can increase the bond between you. You are telling him how important he is to you. After all, you love him, your husband, enough to..."<br /><br />Corporal punishment would be an overt validation of our WLM. I try to live by the precepts of wife worship for its own sake but without any feedback from my wife I am too often subject to my fickle will.Rexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01827590711576136188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-17985189248049642942009-09-14T10:09:51.599-07:002009-09-14T10:09:51.599-07:00About 3 years ago my wife and I agreed that I shou...About 3 years ago my wife and I agreed that I should wear a chastity device 24/7 to prevent unauthorized orgasms. It was my idea since I felt my willpower might not be as strong after 4 weeks and maybe 3 or 4 weeks to go. She wasn't to quick to say yes, but she did seem to like the control it gave her. When it arrived and we gave it a trial run for a week to make sure ring and spacer adjustments were fine, she did love to "click" the little brass lock shut once we made it full time. Recently though she has started to feel that the chastity device is an artifical way of controlling the penis she owns. She wants to go without it, and base keeping me very horny on the trust we have in eachother, giving her my word that I will not masturbate no matter how many weeks she makes me wait. She will remove it this weekend after 5 weeks of denial and 1 more to go. Although after the 1 more week she will probably add some additional time because as she puts it "I can if I want, it's mine and you have no say". She is going to read this before I send it so I'm sure now I'll have to wait longer. Well, I do feel she is 100% correct., but the device did make it very easy for me not to masturbate .It will be more difficult for me, the temptation will be there, but she is right. I will give her my word to stay horny, we have such a great WLR that of course what she says I will do. I could never lie to her, that's how great we are together. I do agree that having your wife control orgasms is the most dominating thing she can do to you. Of course she doesn't wait, she is satisfied at least once a week by me orally and with some toys. Good luck to me after this weekend.HORNYHUBBYnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-82560301657906054592009-09-13T17:24:36.602-07:002009-09-13T17:24:36.602-07:00I too don't spank my husband, I raised 2 child...I too don't spank my husband, I raised 2 children and am not looking to raise a third. But I will not allow him to get off with nothing after he does something that I don't like. Making him do extra housework (he does all of it now), for example, cleaning the floors the day after he had done them , this all after his regular cleaning days, only this time on his hands and knees. And if he really needs some good discipline, I make him do them a second or third time the same day so his entire day is spent cleaning. I once made him clean my bathroom three times, and I must say I loved how it looked and smelled by late afternoon. I feel it's better to make him do plenty of housework instead of standing him in a corner for several hours. I make him do it all while he is naked also, this adds to his frustration. I dress sexy so I try to distract him, but if he's been naughty, he may not see me nude., maybe for weeks. . Also, I do agree that the best punishment is not letting your husband have an orgasm for maybe four to eight weeks, depending what he did. But you must have a mutual consent where he has promised not to take care of it himself. And any wife could tell if her husband did it without her permission, their attitude changes immediately for days afterward. Always looking for new ideas!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-18487336370849023522009-09-12T23:32:44.412-07:002009-09-12T23:32:44.412-07:00I can't imagine how difficult LFA is to sustai...I can't imagine how difficult LFA is to sustain in marriage. My boyfriend and I have only been practicing it for six months, and I recently left the state for school, so the issue of "discipline" has never really come up.<br /><br />It may later. Or he may express an interest in it later. If so, I might (eventually) warm up to it the same way I warmed up to LFA's rudimentary concepts. Gradually.<br /><br />When my boyfriend introduced me to LFA, he gave me your book along with the Addisons', and yours was the one that really sold me on the idea. It's certainly a great alternative to Dr. Laura. And, if these ideas ever become mainstream, you guys could easily blow her out of the water!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-10989049356535086322009-09-12T20:44:51.411-07:002009-09-12T20:44:51.411-07:00Anonymous, my wife would agree with you, which is ...Anonymous, my wife would agree with you, which is why I've avoided the topic pretty much till now. I decided to go ahead, and was interested in some of the rationales for punishment that I presented. But my own wife chooses not to coerce my compliance or follow-through on what I've promised or she has "asked" me to do. It's up to me to follow if I truly want to honor her as my leader, and I do, so I do. Pretty much. Failed on several things today, though.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-84842866868404297142009-09-12T14:09:46.811-07:002009-09-12T14:09:46.811-07:00While I find the idea of LFA intriging, I must adm...While I find the idea of LFA intriging, I must admit that I balk at the idea of corporeal punishment against husbands for the same reason that I balk at male supremists within certain Judeo-Christian or Islamic communities using that same practice against women. <br /><br />But, hey. If two consenting adults enjoy it and find that it enhances their relationship, that's cool with me. As a straight-up, fair-is-fair feminist type, though, I probably wouldn't be able to do it. Then again, I wouldn't have really gone for LFA at all if my boyfriend hadn't pointed me in the direction of your blog, the Addisons', and Lady Misato's.<br /><br />I'm still new to all this stuff, but I must say that your blog has made the LFA philosophy seem really appealing, and relatable to the average Joe (or Jane:). Even as a so-called liberal grad student of the Y-generation, I have to admit that some of the heavier stuff has squicked me out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com