tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post2353378069166678594..comments2023-10-24T10:09:19.477-07:00Comments on Worshipping Your Wife: GUEST POST: HÉLÈNE: SCENES FROM OUR FLR—HIS EARLY TRAININGMark Remondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-40343368263187765802022-06-16T19:55:24.074-07:002022-06-16T19:55:24.074-07:00I agree, as an unhappy man that has a wife who is ...I agree, as an unhappy man that has a wife who is careless with boundaries. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-33474873503696471262014-01-24T08:24:24.291-08:002014-01-24T08:24:24.291-08:00I am a stay at home husband and father of 4. I fin...I am a stay at home husband and father of 4. I find these blogs to be motivational. Our WLM consists of my Wife working and me doing everything else except laundry. She does laundry because she wants to though I do offer help. She does not spank, though I wish she did because what she usually does is worse. She'll just scorn and yell and stew in it angry for days or weeks. She says I'd just like a spank. Anyway, I do my best to obey but sometimes I mess up. Well I love the reading keep them coming.mister rodgershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16653299312148134543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-16073372799964921832013-11-21T20:31:32.614-08:002013-11-21T20:31:32.614-08:00FYI, in case you had any doubts, the "Anonymo...FYI, in case you had any doubts, the "Anonymous" comment just above was from Hélène.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-24862659220078839092013-11-21T19:29:48.586-08:002013-11-21T19:29:48.586-08:00Thank you, everyone, for your supportive and thoug...Thank you, everyone, for your supportive and thought-provoking comments. In answer to Lady Grey, I think "satisfaction" is the more accurate word to describe my emotions. I feel satisfied at having established my authority, and having obedience and order reestablished in my household and relationship. It makes it so much more enjoyable to greet the day, knowing the little man is taken in hand, and so I guess I feel some "pleasure" in that. Kathy, I totally agree. Punishments are necessary and once he becomes more obedient you won't have to be so drastic over time. At this point, raising my finger is enough to make him quiet. I know you weren't directing that remark particularly at me (or perhaps you were), but I am "Agnostic", he is Catholic - he volunteered at Notre-Dame when he was a boy. Anonymous: The rules are pretty simple. My boyfriend spent two years with his family in a southern province, where he cooked, cleaned and gardened all day, so he really he preferred it. Now he is older and he keeps his place quite clean. As for rules, it's pretty simple, chores before anything else. It's complicated. But thank you for asking. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-41015831617202741012013-11-21T07:02:29.031-08:002013-11-21T07:02:29.031-08:00Lady Helene,
Thank you for such an enjoyable post...Lady Helene,<br /><br />Thank you for such an enjoyable post. You are absolutely right about defining boundaries and providing consequences.<br /><br />I particularly liked how you set up your boyfriend to assess his motivation by taking a long shower. Obedience is all very well and is obviously a prerequisite, but motivation and a willingness to please his lady are also essential in any FLR.<br /><br />Your grasp of male psycholgy is perfect. The more my wife expresses her loving authority with confidence, the more it strengthens the loving bond between us.<br /><br /> I would be very interested to read how you arrived at your current attitude to relationships and discipline.Omhakinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-5639905919611899042013-11-20T17:45:45.764-08:002013-11-20T17:45:45.764-08:00Now this is a post about Loving Female Authority, ...Now this is a post about Loving Female Authority, more of this please and not that female supremacy crud. Mknighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14392047914867078635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-91435461435273034372013-11-19T12:05:48.069-08:002013-11-19T12:05:48.069-08:00For some reason the following Anonymous comment di...For some reason the following Anonymous comment did not show up here:<br /><br />Anonymous: <br /><br />Mark, This post is different for you but much needed. Punishment is key to a successful FLR, particularly of the physical nature since many men respond so well to it. I am interested to hear more from Helene, especially how she handles major infractions and also how she manages her household (house cleaning, rules, etc.) <br />Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-19962000067263792962013-11-19T06:35:00.338-08:002013-11-19T06:35:00.338-08:00The words are a little different, but this is exca...The words are a little different, but this is excately what I tell my daughter. Every man,including her husband needs clear, consistant boundaries. Men need to understand that if they cross those boundaries there will be punsihment.<br /><br />When you decide a punishment is in order it is important that you explain the reason for the punishment. I find it helpful to explain the reason for the punishment both before and after.<br />Than ask your husband if he understands. If he answers yes, then have him repeat the reaons back to you.<br /><br />Once the punishment has been completed take him in your arms, and asssure him of your love and forgiveness. Make sure he understands that the punishment is for his own good.<br /><br /> If you are in a Christian home it is important for a husband to understand that any type of willful disrepect is an offense against God as well as his wife and family.<br /><br />While much of this sounds easy, it is a giant step for a young wife to punishment her husband for the first time. What I do believe is that the world would be a far better place if more man lived a in a female led home.<br /><br />Great Post<br /><br />KathyKathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07388565466269673134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-79832702189750270382013-11-19T06:34:14.856-08:002013-11-19T06:34:14.856-08:00I'll be interested to see if Helene addresses ...I'll be interested to see if Helene addresses the issue of HER response to necessary punishment. Is it with reluctance that she administers said punishment, or is she deriving some pleasure for herself in the process? In my mind, a critical distinction. I await further postings from her. Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-14859972707704480202013-11-18T17:21:59.503-08:002013-11-18T17:21:59.503-08:00Self confidence is so attractive!
Thank you Lady H...Self confidence is so attractive!<br />Thank you Lady HeleneObedient husbandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12433547494682851572noreply@blogger.com