tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post2969318401053827579..comments2023-10-24T10:09:19.477-07:00Comments on Worshipping Your Wife: Direct Report to the Boss LadyMark Remondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-51417408766131808062017-06-13T15:32:22.481-07:002017-06-13T15:32:22.481-07:00Anonymous (just above):
I enjoyed your comment an...Anonymous (just above):<br /><br />I enjoyed your comment and can totally empathize with your feelings. You and I are submissively wired very much the same. And I certainly admire the take-charge, no-nonsense rule of your dominant wife. Unfortunately, I have pretty much retired from blogging here, but let me suggest that you will find many of these same topics and others of a similar nature at the blog of a friend of mine, http://thomaslavalle.blogspot.com -- The Wonderful World of Female Supremacy. Good luck on your submissive journey, and, of course, do exactly what your wife says, and do nothing that she does not!Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-62129920834692122452017-06-12T10:53:42.358-07:002017-06-12T10:53:42.358-07:00Oh my gosh, I cannot believe I found this site!
M...Oh my gosh, I cannot believe I found this site!<br /><br />My wife has always been the boss in our marriage, and I have always been subservient to her, to make her happy. I didn't think anyone else had a marriage like mine. So many things I read here, happened to me too. I'm relieved to find other men want to be in marriages like this too!<br /><br />I know that people can tell that my wife is the boss, and they think I'm P-whipped. But they can only see the surface, and don't know how crazy my situation is. I've always been ashamed to tell anyone. I actually don't want to leave my overbearing, domineering, controlling bi tch wife - quite the opposite - I can't live without her!<br /><br />What I love the most about our marriage, is when I have to ask her permission for things. Beforehand plan exactly how I am going to phrase my request. I like to say it the most subservient manner possible. And also most times I am not sure if I want her to say yes or no. Like asking for money. I want her to say yes, so I can buy the thing I want. But what I like more is when she says no. I get so excited when she tells me I don't need that, and whatever comments she makes, putting me in my place, I guess there is something wrong with me.<br /><br />I can relate to this post, as I too am not allowed to have money, my wife is in total control there. One time I had a dollar bill in my wallet that I had found outside. And my wife found it later that day. Well she went crazy screaming at me. "Why the F do you have money in your wallet? Who the F gave you permission to have a dollar? That's my F'ing money! You F'ing thief! You F'ing dog! On and on. And I spent the night in the doghouse. Literally. She stripped me, kicked me out the door, and told me to sleep on in the shed (concrete floor). I couldn't come in for 3 days. And I could only drink water from the hose outside. She did put some old leftovers from the fridge out on the back porch for my around dinner time so that was good.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-91204733808175382132015-12-16T16:06:15.189-08:002015-12-16T16:06:15.189-08:00Me again. My wife would never say something like ...Me again. My wife would never say something like that to me. She likes being in control, but not actually discussing it. She really seems to enjoy when having no money gets me into a situation, like above, so she can laugh about it. I always tell her the story afterward to muse her. Last week I had to go out to lunch at work, and had to drive around to find a parking spot, because there were parking meters everywhere. I had to walk 6 blocks from my car to the restaurant, which she found funny.<br />This might sound weird, but after taking financial control, why do wives still give $20 a week as an allowance? Really it should be zero.<br />My wife enjoys grocery shopping so I rarely do that. What would I need money for? If I need shirts/pants/socks/etc, I tell her, and she gets them for me. She hates when I pick anything on my own, its always a bad choice, according to her. Great for me - she a great sense of style, and I look good! She buys nice but inexpensive stuff for me from places like TJ Maxx, etc.<br />A month ago, we stopped at a tag sale, and she let me get a few things. I picked out about 5 things, and asked her if I could buy them. She asked how much they each were, what I needed them for, etc. It was mostly tools and supplies, etc. She has a rule, that I can buy stuff like that, if I really need it. Meaning I am going to actually use it immediately, like within a week. If a week goes by and I don't use them, the belt is coming out. So I needed foil tape to re-tape the air ducts that the insulation was coming loose from, a new blade for my table saw, pair of pliers, etc. A few things she made me put back (C-clamps, screwdriver, etc). The funny thing, which I know she enjoyed immensely, was saying all this in front of the guy that was having the tag sale. He looked at me really funny, my wife just acted like everything was normal, I went along with whatever she said...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-49135615383753221462015-12-15T05:51:06.531-08:002015-12-15T05:51:06.531-08:00Anonymous, what a delicious story, thank you for s...Anonymous, what a delicious story, thank you for sharing! I have had similar experiences. I remember my wife saying to me, when it was agreed that I should arrange to have my paycheck directly deposited into her private checking account, "But won't that be emasculating for you?" The answer, of course, was yes. And how.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-31625950781818242272015-12-14T21:15:13.851-08:002015-12-14T21:15:13.851-08:00Hi Mark, I made the previous comment. I think it h...Hi Mark, I made the previous comment. I think it has been more than 18 months now, since my wife decided that I was no longer allowed to have any cash, ever. My wallet has not had one single dollar in it, since then. I actually cant remember what it is like to have money to spend on anything I want. I can't even have loose change. Any money I get, must immediately be turned over. Like when I return our empty cans, she wants the receipt and cash. All loose change drops into a locked box which we bring to the bank when it gets full. About once a week I really need cash for something, but I can't do anything about it. I think my wife really enjoys this. And I have a feeling she really loves it when I need to ask her for cash, so that she can berate me, and tell me I don't need to spend money on this or that.<br /><br />Something else she loves about controlling the money (true story). Right after she stopped letting me have cash (about april 2014), I was at a kids soccer game. One of the team mothers was collecting $10 for a coaches present, like they always do. So I told her I had no money and would give it to her next week. The following week she asked again, and my wife was there. I said "Honey do have the money for the coaches present?" And my wife gave the money to the woman. 6 months later at the end of fall soccer, the same thing happened - same mother asked for money, I said I had no money, I'll give it to you next week. I told my wife later, and she was smirking. The following week my wife gave her the money (again), smiling at me. Now onto spring 2015 soccer, you guessed it, same thing happened. After I told the team mother we would give her the money next week, she said, "Ok I'll ask your wife for it next time I see her." I think she was looking at me funny but I'm not sure. My wife was laughing when I got home and told her what the mother said. The next game, the mother ignored me and just asked my wife. Fast forward to fall 2015 soccer, of course it happens again. She asked me, I said I had no money, we'll pay you next week. When I informed my wife, she was laughing, and saying, "She knew you had no money! She just thought it would be fun to ask you again!" Which might have been true. Then at the game the following week, the woman ignored me, and said to my wife, "Hi I saw your husband last week, did he tell you its that time of year again?" My wife said, "Yes, he told me!" Then to me she said, "Honey, can you hand me my pocketbook?" It was six inches away from her on the bench, I was 4 feet away. I walked over and handed it to her. My wife was smiling, the other woman was also. I'm pretty sure that woman knows who controls the money in our beautiful marriage.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-33785144956510733852015-11-18T21:52:08.947-08:002015-11-18T21:52:08.947-08:00A wonderful comment. I would love to hear more fro...A wonderful comment. I would love to hear more from you and how your wife has taken complete control of the finances and oversees all your use of money.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-81840916647956585392015-11-18T21:09:54.747-08:002015-11-18T21:09:54.747-08:00My wife has taken control of our finances. All of...My wife has taken control of our finances. All of our accounts are in her name only. My paycheck gets direct deposited into her savings account. All of our accounts are online, and I manage them when necessary. She will log on and enter the password, then I make any transactions we need while she watches over my shoulder. All of our regular bills are automatic payments so there is really not much to manage. Some bills that we get in the mail, I prepare, and she signs the check.<br /><br />I am not allowed to have any cash. I bring lunch to work everyday (or go hungry). I have 1 credit card that I am only allowed to use for things like gas in the car, groceries, etc. Any purchase that is specifically for me must be approved by the queen prior to purchase. She has credit card security email alerts set up, so that she is informed immediately when I make a purchase. I must provide itemized receipts for all credit card purchases once I return to the house.<br /><br />This has cut my spending to near zero. I make about $175,000 per year, and she does not need/want to work. She is not extravagant, and this allows her to purchase whatever she wants and we still have money left over to save. I don't know how much money she has saved or what she will do with it, but I know its probably a lot. She is happy with this arrangement, and thats all that matters.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-64425200699266614142012-03-16T12:34:14.414-07:002012-03-16T12:34:14.414-07:00fucking whorefucking whoreAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-27769161727578980232012-03-16T12:34:04.303-07:002012-03-16T12:34:04.303-07:00fucking whore......fucking whore......sqchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11220762016534138818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-8118980457795152042011-10-16T07:30:14.568-07:002011-10-16T07:30:14.568-07:00The key is still living within your budget and mai...The key is still living within your budget and maintaining common sense. I've always managed the finances, and have done it well. So when we recently went to a WLM the only big difference is I will ask permission before a large purchase, say over $100. I don't agree with the more extreme ideas where all the bank accounts are in the wife's name only, or the husband is more like a child. That scenario might be "hot", but isn't a sound real world plan.Locked Husbandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00066862164624960129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-27241014486575236572011-10-05T10:05:26.609-07:002011-10-05T10:05:26.609-07:00This article assumes that the wife is not a spendt...This article assumes that the wife is not a spendthrift and is good at managing money. I'm a husband who's wife has managed all of the finances for the last 7 years. For the first 3 years we didn't have a lot of money and I did a great job of keeping our head above the water. We have gradually fallen into grave debt even though we both make a lot more money now. She has made things into such a juggled mess that it would almost be impossible for anyone else to come in and clean things up. The phone rings constantly from creditors yet she still spends in excess. Her budget is myopic only looking forward to the next paycheck and any large amount of cash that comes in (ie: a bonus, a gift) gets blown on stuff that she wants. I have to get approval to make any purchases and can't save for anything big. Any money I try to save gets used to bail her out of some mess (ie: no money for food, power will be cut off, etc). If things don't change I will be looking to divorce. My advise to any guy considering this is to give your head a shake. Beat it against a brick wall if you need to. If you completely give up control of your finances you might as well find the closest highrise and jump off the roof. The only option is to keep control or co-manage the finances. Split things up, but keep some control. Hold your spouse accountable for their share and be accountable for yours. Have a central budget that you both contribute to and set spending limits. Who the heck wants to have to beg for approval to buy a $20 shirt when your spouse can go out on a whim and buy a $30,000 new car that will have ramification on the budget for 3-7 years?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-88819957064801586002011-09-25T08:21:45.382-07:002011-09-25T08:21:45.382-07:00My wife just took my debit card yesterday. I know...My wife just took my debit card yesterday. I know get 15 dollars a week. Not sure how much I'm going to like this but she's not changing her mind.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-31752152143263628192008-10-24T17:21:00.000-07:002008-10-24T17:21:00.000-07:00Thanks, Anon. Which tells me I'd better keep posti...Thanks, Anon. Which tells me I'd better keep posting stuff here, or I'll lose my audience!Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-64328768927620878682008-10-22T20:19:00.000-07:002008-10-22T20:19:00.000-07:00Great blog! I've found it really interesting and ...Great blog! I've found it really interesting and added it to my favorites to check it as often as possible.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com