tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post3061229635975107142..comments2023-10-24T10:09:19.477-07:00Comments on Worshipping Your Wife: NANCY & DENNIS: OF SERVICE TO THE QUEENMark Remondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-82943017262940682342012-10-07T23:16:43.024-07:002012-10-07T23:16:43.024-07:00We have to agree to disagree in part.I understand ...We have to agree to disagree in part.I understand that it might make someone complacent but it is just polite manners to thank someone.That you expect the task done and done well does not preclude you from praising the person doing the task.<br /><br />If I am served well in a restaurant I still give thanks to the person even after paying them.<br /><br />FemsupAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-80921705215313414062012-10-05T22:50:47.791-07:002012-10-05T22:50:47.791-07:00Femsup - Somehow there is this expectation that a ...Femsup - Somehow there is this expectation that a dominant woman is somehow mean or unkind. I suppose that this comes from the image of the leather-clad Dom frequently associated with female-led situations; these are, of course, not the norm. While a women will occasionally have to confront and correct her man, most of the time things go smoothly. If she lets her man know what she wants and how she wants it done, things usually go well since most men want to please their spouse.<br /><br />To your comment about "thanking her submissive," our response is "Bad practice!" Thanks make him think that he has reached a level where he no longer needs to improve; a man can always improve and will continually strive to do so unless given a signal to the contrary.Nancy and Dennishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08638219705786836817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-3525215010113932772012-10-05T14:13:06.552-07:002012-10-05T14:13:06.552-07:00Although it is up to every Womyn to run her home a...Although it is up to every Womyn to run her home as She wishes I have found many dominant Womyn to be most curteous and polite and to thank her submissive for attending to her.<br /><br />FemsupAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-81674265336638680122012-09-20T12:13:11.880-07:002012-09-20T12:13:11.880-07:00Devoted Hubby, Yes, women definitely need to becom...Devoted Hubby, Yes, women definitely need to become more assertive in passing on chores to their husbands, but, as you note, men need to be more willing to accept such responsibilities from their wives.<br /><br />Educated, professional women are not likely to want to come home to a sink full of dishes, a cluttered house, and a fast food meal, when her husband is quite able to tend to such things.<br /><br />It's interesting to see that your wife 'profusely thanked' you. Many women do this - initially anyway - until they realize that they are deserving of such treatment and you don't thank someone for something you deserve. Also, by their insisting that a man do an appropriate share of the housework, he benefits as well, and it may benefit him even more when one considers all of the benefits the couple accrues.<br /><br />Within our family the women rarely if ever say thank you as they realize that such treatment from their subordinate mates is an entitlement.<br /><br />Finally, please see to it that your wife doesn't have to tidy up.<br /><br />Nancy and Dennishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08638219705786836817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-74603066777058643822012-09-19T07:28:29.304-07:002012-09-19T07:28:29.304-07:00(Devoted Hubby writing)
I love being my wife'...(Devoted Hubby writing)<br /><br />I love being my wife's valet too!<br /><br />I think the alpha women in these marriages need to become comfortable delegating these chores to their hubbies, and the hubbies need to be enthusiastic in doing them, for this to work. When I first took on the responsibility of keeping the kitchen tidy, she would profusely thank me. Now, the odd time she tidies up, she will almost complain about how long it took her (she hates boring tasks) and I profusely thank her!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com