tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post3492583758609524278..comments2023-10-24T10:09:19.477-07:00Comments on Worshipping Your Wife: DENNIS: LEARNING TO KEEP HOUSE – ESSENTIAL MAN-SKILLS IN A WOMAN-RUN WORLDMark Remondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-80634966897090773572013-11-25T00:43:10.849-08:002013-11-25T00:43:10.849-08:00Dear Dennis:
I am up late, just waiting for a loa...Dear Dennis:<br /><br />I am up late, just waiting for a load of laundry to finish drying, and decided to catch up on your blog. I re-read this entry because I found it so inspiring the first time. <br /><br />I am not surprised at all at the level of interest for housekeeping 101 by so many husbands. After all something worth doing is worth doing right, and housework above all is worth doing I am proud to say. I take great pride, and put all my efforts into keeping our home prim and proper. <br />This leads me to my question. How long is the typical waiting list to begin the application, and vetting process for this (in my case) much needed course for men? The vacuuming component especially caught my interest, I also need some tips from a stern woman on how to properly scrub a toilet.<br /><br />I think $125.00 is quite a bargain for this especially since the practicum component only costs $25.00 for intruding on another persons time. My wife is willing to lend me the money, otherwise it would simply be out of my price range, despite being such an incredible bargain.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Montynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-58315477167015862902013-10-27T08:26:12.450-07:002013-10-27T08:26:12.450-07:00Dennis responds to Anonymous "LS" ("...Dennis responds to Anonymous "LS" ("Great post...")<br /><br />First, i and other men in an FLR take ownership of housework and we feel it's a part of our roles and responsibilities. Nothing was needed to change that. i take pride in doing whatever my wife, her mother, or other female authority figures in my life tell me to do. Period! And i have to say that i take great pride in my homemaking and in what our home looks like. In future posts you'll see that - just as Women have in the past - men are taking an interest in skills and crafts that will help them beautify and enhance their homes. There are more men shopping at crafts stores these days and more men selecting window treatments than ever before. A woman i know who works at a major retailer in their household department says she can never assume who the customer is based on gender and that more of her customers are men! Our periodic men's nights out often feature crafts, decorating, and so on, that used to be associated with women. For example, we had a session on window treatments and another on flower arranging. <br /><br />Now, as for a transformation due to Housekeeping 101, well, there hasn't been a transformation in attitudes because men enter the training WANTING to improve their domestic skills. Where the transformation comes in is having better skills that allow a man to do a better job, have more confidence, and thus meet his Wife's high standards. It's really about confidence and that's why we have the practicum; men get to go out and practice what they've learned and receive appropriate compliments and critique from their Woman host and instructor. They take this into their own homes, improve, and please their Wives. <br /><br />I'm not too sure that saying a man's place is in the home is a put down as you say either. There is an increasing number of men who are homemakers and love the role. It's not a universal thing but we know many Women and couples who proudly proclaim that he's a homemaker. It's as though you expect that a professional Woman would consider it a put down to be called 'boss' or 'manager' - She doesn't, it's Her new role. Same for men, homemaking is an emerging new and appropriate role for us.<br /> Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-29722041754401339392013-10-27T08:19:19.110-07:002013-10-27T08:19:19.110-07:00Dennis responds to Anonymous "L" ("...Dennis responds to Anonymous "L" ("Really...")<br /><br />You are certainly entitled to your opinion but charging fees for course participation isn't about 'financial slavery'; rather, it's about our having only serious gentlemen in the classes. It's the best way to control enrollment and ensure a good program. And one doesn't have to have any money to participate in the course since a applicant who is recommended and has good feminist and/or FLR credentials can get a 'scholarship' with no fees involved. As for 'financial slavery' as you call it, working for the benefit of a woman or women is a satisfying aspect of FLR. And I say 'women' because course fees, with exception of gratuities, benefit women's causes and organizations.<br />Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-12163035067207550572013-10-14T09:16:57.795-07:002013-10-14T09:16:57.795-07:00Great Posts Dennis. I've been serving my Godde...Great Posts Dennis. I've been serving my Goddess for 7 years now. She is the sole earner and i'm her full time slave. She and her girlfriend have taught me all the housework. Recently my Goddess has got a scholarship for a Phd in a prestigious London Institution. I've been saving some money with her permission and begging her to allow me to buy PS4. But now i think i should beg my Goddess to let me join a course for a Nail Technician, since she'll be busy with her degree and the least i can do is to serve her better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-24635314806129268492013-10-12T13:55:40.749-07:002013-10-12T13:55:40.749-07:00Actually Alex, I am not sure if She has ever tied ...Actually Alex, I am not sure if She has ever tied me up. If She wants me in a position She simply orders me to assume it and I have to stay that way until She orders me to move again. She HAS done all the rest of it. I do all the laundry and the other Women in our complex compliment Her on how well trained I am. She handles all our contacts with local business and particularly local businessWOMEN have commented on how She 'wears the pants in the family'. Every year about this time our condo has its members meeting and She goes and represents our unit and casts our vote. She is the primary on all our financial accounts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-72630144709263139592013-10-11T01:45:58.485-07:002013-10-11T01:45:58.485-07:00I second that. A cougar who spanks. And who plac...I second that. A cougar who spanks. And who places her finger on my lips to shut me up from time to time when she thinks I should only speak when spoken to. And who thinks I'm sweet. And brings me flowers. And ties me up. And collars me and leashes me. And orders for me at restaurants. Yep, that kind.Alexnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-25226631432795345892013-10-08T17:31:14.000-07:002013-10-08T17:31:14.000-07:00I belong to a Cougar who does not hesitate to appl...I belong to a Cougar who does not hesitate to apply a firm hand to my behind. It enhances the lifestyle.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-40197041232401069562013-10-08T03:25:19.994-07:002013-10-08T03:25:19.994-07:00Hi,
Question:
What about cougaring? Isn't th...Hi, <br />Question:<br />What about cougaring? Isn't that super compatible with this lifestyle? Who likes it? I wished I was cougaredAlexnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-1861122259893203922013-10-07T17:15:14.755-07:002013-10-07T17:15:14.755-07:00Really? I feel it's a bit over the top to pay...Really? I feel it's a bit over the top to pay non refundable tuition and not even be admitted at this "clean for me" course. I find financial domination to be a huge turn off for me and I think it's one of those things that makes people run away from Female led. Although the Elise Sutton website is a circus (it just recycles and it's been doing so for years and it also has contradicting views all in the name of Sutton etc. -- believe me it's there just to sell the books and procedures --) I think one of the key things that you COULD learn from Sutton is that Femdom is about two things:<br />1 ) Female SUPERIORITY not play<br />2) Love. <br /><br />If any the first of the two ingredients is missing it's vanilla. If the second is, it's either abusive or not worth pursuing. <br /><br />That's my honest opinion, and I say it with respect to the post. I hope nobody minds. <br /><br />LAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-88646878903433121782013-10-07T07:56:40.375-07:002013-10-07T07:56:40.375-07:00I have to admit- as much as I want an FLR, I tend ...I have to admit- as much as I want an FLR, I tend to slack off in my housework without adequate supervision and correction. A class like this would be just the thing!<br /><br />It might also help me learn to do laundry to my wife's satisfaction. She currently only delegates part of the laundry to me, because she doesn't think I can do it well enough to suit her. How I'd love to be able to please her by doing it exactly right!<br /><br />Last- wow, the expenses that come from this, and all on borrowed money! I can see why it took Dennis so long to pay back! But I'm sure that helps him appreciate it all teh more.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-35502032047692174612013-10-06T10:00:52.999-07:002013-10-06T10:00:52.999-07:00Dennis, Great post. This will most definitely help...Dennis, Great post. This will most definitely help in transforming wife worship, female domination, etc. from being merely a male sexual turn-on into a male way of life. I can see men who have been through this course taking ownership of household work the way women once did. When that happens men will take pride in a clean, neat, beautiful house and not need constant nagging or direction from their wives. Even more, this will become a part of a man’s identity, his sense of self. It will be seen as “manly.” <br /><br />Currently, to say a man’s place is in the home would be either nonsensical or a put down. But, I can see men who have been through this training taking deep pleasure and satisfaction in homemaking. We will be a long way toward a better society when men can say with pride that their place in life is homemaking. As Nancy has said, that will free up women from doing menial work to come into their own as heads of household, leaders, and decision-makers. But, there is an added bonus for women and men. A man who has been through this training has suddenly become much more marriageable, more attractive as a helpmate to an ambitious woman. <br /><br />I wonder if dennis could comment on whether he and other men who have been through the training have made this transformation and how that has worked in their lives. <br /><br />LS<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-54713841762750226272013-10-06T08:41:44.324-07:002013-10-06T08:41:44.324-07:00I was wondering if this class could be opened to b...I was wondering if this class could be opened to boys as well? I think the sooner boys learn these things, the easier their relationships will be. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-48571672298879409012013-10-05T15:19:04.112-07:002013-10-05T15:19:04.112-07:00Dennis,
It was several months ago that I mused on...Dennis,<br /><br />It was several months ago that I mused on this website about taking on the house cleaner's duties in our home, thinking I would do every other week (I work part time and keep house the rest of the week). Nancys' reaction was: why are you so important that you need a house cleaner - do all of it!<br /><br />Well, we have been several months now without the house cleaner. My wife still isn't 100% happy with the state of the house, but I am working on it. The other week, I made a real push to scrub the floors and do a number of other chores on one of my days at home, and she really appreciated it. I felt over the moon!<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-27469904413926268302013-10-05T10:35:14.901-07:002013-10-05T10:35:14.901-07:00Hello,
You mention you volunteer at "a loca...Hello, <br /><br />You mention you volunteer at "a local forum for advocating Matriarchy, Women’s Rights, and FLRs."<br /><br />Please provide more info about them. What is their website. Do they accept donations? How openly FLR are the members? How does it work? Can we join?Alexnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-61986277307509342442013-10-05T10:06:01.714-07:002013-10-05T10:06:01.714-07:00ALL HERS, I appreciate the inquiry and the strong ...ALL HERS, I appreciate the inquiry and the strong interest on your part. Dennis anticipated there might be such responses, because he wrote me this as a preface to his post:<br /><br />"Please note that we’re not looking for applications for Housekeeping 101, we have more than enough applicants who have been vetted through the center. Rather, what we’d like to see is women organizing similar training in their locales for men needing to acquire such skills."<br /><br />Perhaps your wife might wish to take that suggestion under advisement or confer with other women in wife-led marriages in your area.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-40346496369647294892013-10-05T09:40:53.478-07:002013-10-05T09:40:53.478-07:00Is this class offered in Florida? My wife would s...Is this class offered in Florida? My wife would sign me up in a minute and I would love to attend. We have been in a WLM for about 12 years, we are both retired so I have the time for this class. I have been doing all of the housework, ironing most meals etc. But my wife always finds some fault with what I have done, and as a result I get punished by her, sometimes severely . I would love to learn to do housework properly. She goes out golfing, plays tennis or goes to the gym when I do housework, she does not want to stand over me. She will always find something not done properly, then it is more chastity time in my CB 6000 , corner time or other punishments. This course would help me serve her better.ALL HERShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04708951568152448024noreply@blogger.com