tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post3898815944023084151..comments2023-10-24T10:09:19.477-07:00Comments on Worshipping Your Wife: Bow and Vow, Part 2Mark Remondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-64561383959571828482011-09-07T06:34:16.326-07:002011-09-07T06:34:16.326-07:00I can see a definite benefit of bowing each day is...I can see a definite benefit of bowing each day is that it is a daily reminder of our new roles. As mentioned above, I have not yet incorporated this, however I do see that my wife and I both could use that daily reminder - or at least some daily reminder. It is not that I need a reminder to obey her, but that I may need a reminder to do those extra things without being asked. At the same time it is not that she thinks I will disobey any of her orders, but it may remind her that she is free to give as many orders as she likes. Just something else that makes me want to try to incorporate this or something very similar on a regular basis.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-83780846708936085932011-08-29T14:54:46.599-07:002011-08-29T14:54:46.599-07:00Anonymous, I guess I've said this before, but ...Anonymous, I guess I've said this before, but I wrote the book for my wife--not only with her in mind, but to let her know how I think and feel about her and our marriage... and just maybe to legitimize it. So I very carefully avoided certain terms that could put her (and many other women) off. I've been less and less careful in these blog posts, as you will have noticed (many of which were collected in the sequel)Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-30514159877071424712011-08-29T14:47:10.429-07:002011-08-29T14:47:10.429-07:00I pamper my wife alot, and did before I ever knew ...I pamper my wife alot, and did before I ever knew about FLR. I long for the day where it is all acknowledged, but so far all stealth for the usual reason - afraid of rejection.<br /><br />This thread actually has me pondering whether I should give your book (which I ordered some time ago) to her when I next give her a long foot soak and pedicure, and ask her to read it while I attend to her feet on my knees.<br /><br />The big advantage of your book is that it doesn't mention the word submissive. That word as part of the intro would be an issue I believe. But flip it around a bit, and make it about courtship and making the marriage more intimate, and it would be much better received (I think and hope).<br /><br />Pedicure typically includes champagne, with nice soft music, so it would be a nice atmosphere. Still a risk to ask her to read it on the spot, but I'm considering it because it seems like a rather nice moment/setup to do it with me on my knees treating her like a queen.<br /><br />I will follow up if this actually happens :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-62427103690755974552011-08-29T11:18:22.209-07:002011-08-29T11:18:22.209-07:00Anonymous, I love your anecdote, and the delicious...Anonymous, I love your anecdote, and the delicious feelings that developed as the neighbor woman popped in with you still on your knees.I DO believe in stealth submission -- even practiced while there is an understanding and acknowledgment that she is the boss, helping to ratchet things up a notch. But incrementally... I remember a similar situation when a female friend popped in while I was on my knees giving my wife a pedicure... delicious encounters! I stayed right where I was, proud of what I was doing, excited to be seen doing it, and by my wife's complacence with the situation. It was a regal position and she accepted it. Keep us posted!Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-59630088999555477252011-08-29T11:07:31.044-07:002011-08-29T11:07:31.044-07:00So anon #1 here. Thanks for the reply Mark. I agre...So anon #1 here. Thanks for the reply Mark. I agree in that using some natural positions to gradually lead into things may work to crack the ice for me - ie. giving her leg massages from my knees while she is lying on the sofa. It is actually the easiest way to give the massage. I just had another thought this morning in case it sparks an interest with anyone out there who is already kneeling. I was at the bottom of the steps this morning cleaning up a spill when my wife came down and stopped at the bottom step since I was kindof blocking her path. I was already on my knees and looked up at her hoping to be able to stall her if even for a few seconds. The dynamics here did not really play out too much but I was thinking that some people may really enjoy kneeling at the bottom of the steps so as to add an extra 8 to 10 inches to her so that you are really looking up. That may be something kindof gimmicky but thought that some people may like the sybolism. I was also looking for other opportunities to kneel over the weekend and a very interesting encounter. I had to get down on my knees to look for something in the bottom shelf of our pantry while my wife was running through the grocery list with me. It was just easier to look from my knees so I decided to see if I could stay there as she gradually ran through the list. We are beyond the stealth stage but such things like this I do not announce and I don't think she picked up on it even though she was giving me the grocery list. I have to say I did like getting my orders from her while on my knees. And then the kicker - at one point her good friend that lives down the street happened to pop in to talk about the possible hurricane. I assessed things and decided that as long as I could drop a line or two about the grocery inventory I was doing that I could push the whole knee thing - of course making 100% sure that there would be nothing to make the neighbor uncomfortable. For the 10 minutes that she was in our kitchen I was probably on my knees for 5 or 6 of those taking orders from my wife (even if the orders were just grocery orders). I know this would have been much better if my wife were 100% aware of what she was actually doing but in taking things slowly I can be patient for that day and for some things to still be slightly on the stealth side. As a side note - I am 99.9% sure the neighbor did not see anything out of the ordinary since I was just looking through our cabinent - except for one split second expression that she gave me. The quick look almost made me think that her husband was at their door on his knees waiting for her to return home.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-24048794374599218792011-08-28T18:42:45.254-07:002011-08-28T18:42:45.254-07:00I'm really enjoying the comments, both honest ...I'm really enjoying the comments, both honest and provocative. I'm Hers, I do realize that sometimes it's necessary to proceed with caution. And Sandra, I'm honored to have you comment here, and have enjoyed your frequent contributions to Mistress Kathy's blog. The comment by Anonymous just above, about his ritual confession to his girlfriend with his head resting in her lap set my boyish heart a-flutter. As someone once said, "You are well and truly whipped, and there's no better way to be! Do as she says!"Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-64698458007387452442011-08-28T16:52:39.410-07:002011-08-28T16:52:39.410-07:00The time I spend at my girlfriend's feet, usua...The time I spend at my girlfriend's feet, usually with my head resting in her lap, is probably the most intimate time the two of us spend together.<br /><br />It does facilitate an open and honest discussion on my part. Not just for confessions, but for all subjects we talk about. Initially, I was hesitant to be as open and honest with her, but since she has taken the role of making decisions for me, it is important that she be fully informed or her decisions might be flawed or not really the best they could be.<br /><br />Her elevation also seems to reinforce her ability to keep her thoughts personal and private. She says that since I'm not really in a decision making role, that I'm not entitled to all her personal thoughts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-38697705215444875182011-08-28T11:55:16.544-07:002011-08-28T11:55:16.544-07:00This is excellent, excellent thinking followed by ...This is excellent, excellent thinking followed by excellent action. Every man should learn the pleasure of kneeling before the woman he serves, in love, thankfulness and worship.<br />This is a ritual my husband and I enjoy each day.Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448502889205076557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-16884844119278778392011-08-27T16:54:50.961-07:002011-08-27T16:54:50.961-07:00Guys, go for it, just don't overdue it. Wives...Guys, go for it, just don't overdue it. Wives do not llke to feel that their husbands are smothering them. Give them some space after you knell at their feet. Once a day is nice my wife says.ALL HERSnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-11794956273929894672011-08-27T13:38:43.093-07:002011-08-27T13:38:43.093-07:00Now I didn't say that I wouldn't love her ...Now I didn't say that I wouldn't love her smiling down on me when I knelt before her and expressed my love and devotion to her. I would love to do anything that would enhance our feeling and dominance and mine of submission.<br /><br />Our relationship is probably more in line with yours where I want to submit - and do - but she is a loving dominant and very caring about me and about us. <br /><br />The act of bowing interests me, I just know it would be awkward unless I go about it covertly - at least initially.I'm-Hershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04303339046471886645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-68069759693946861772011-08-27T09:37:36.867-07:002011-08-27T09:37:36.867-07:00I'm-Hers, To kneel before my wife was a deeply...I'm-Hers, To kneel before my wife was a deeply felt need on my part, so I was determined to get there, and my yearnings were definitely part of the persuasion kit. If you don't really feel it, but only see that it makes logical sense, I wouldn't pursue it. For my part, I also followed the advice I gave to Anonymous, and sought out plausible situations at which I could begin to sit at her feet, like many another stealth submitter, to accustom her to looking down at me from a queenly height.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-55837976758197589622011-08-27T09:24:00.483-07:002011-08-27T09:24:00.483-07:00Interesting post. My Domme knows without a doubt t...Interesting post. My Domme knows without a doubt that I am there to serve her yet I wonder if she would feel awkward having me kneel before her as it is something that is so different from how she has known me.<br />Is I digested your thoughts I too felt feelings of awkwardness, and thinking 'now this would sure seem odd' as I read, yet I understant the intent of the act as an expression of ones' submissiveness to her dominance.<br />I don't know if I should just try it, or ask her first how she feels.I'm-Hershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04303339046471886645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-38460515635089618602011-08-26T10:49:17.083-07:002011-08-26T10:49:17.083-07:00Great post! I do believe that in a WLM a husband ...Great post! I do believe that in a WLM a husband should get on his knees at once a day and tell his wife his feelings.<br /><br />Every morning I get up shortly before my wife. I am in the kitchen preparing coffee, washing fruit, etc. when she walks in, still in her little teddy or short nightie. Immediately we hug tightly and I rub my hands over her covered ass.(I am never allowed to touch her breasts without asking first and waiting for permission. Any time during the day. And it is only given maybe 25% of the time). Then I get down on both knees and place four kisses on her pussy saying, "today I will adore you(kiss), worship you (kiss) and obey you (kiss). I love you".(kiss) Then I get up and go back to work. She smiles and says she loves me so much. It just can't get any better than that.<br /><br />So, yes, a daily routine is wonderful. But a man must be sincere, a woman knows when a man says only words with no meaning or intent. Say it to her, keep it simple but most of all, don't overdue it!!ALL HERSnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-11306145525460970222011-08-26T04:38:43.472-07:002011-08-26T04:38:43.472-07:00This is an interesting post. Like many I'm ye...This is an interesting post. Like many I'm yearning for a WLM, but haven't broached the subject, although practice many aspects daily in stealth mode.<br /><br />What suddenly occurred to me from your post, is it is interesting how so many of us use the down on one knee in front of our love to ask for marriage. At that point, it is sweet, tender, loving, and fully accepted that we would propose that way.<br /><br />Yet long after that "ceremony", doing it again as you describe, isn't always so accepted. It seems like such a a deviation from what is traditional in a marriage once its in place, yet why should it not be perfectly normal to kneel in front of your wife and express your love and devotion?<br /><br />I have to give that some thought. Thanks for another interesting post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-50947662807635394642011-08-25T11:11:53.194-07:002011-08-25T11:11:53.194-07:00Anonymous, sounds just like me -- even to this day...Anonymous, sounds just like me -- even to this day, I "look for the right opportunity." The time is not always right, or propitious, for both of us. What others have done in stealth submission is to also look for natural opportunities to be on their knees. For instance, I kneel at her bedside to wake her up in the morning, whispering, stroking her, even laying my head into her lap, gently. Curling up in front of her chair, sometimes, when she's watching TV, especially if the kids have taken the other chairs... to get her accustomed to the posture... Good luck! I had to be encouraged to try this by my email friend, whose devotions are quoted above. Actually, I had done it years before but then let it lapse. Never again...Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-37661346270611961322011-08-25T10:39:11.380-07:002011-08-25T10:39:11.380-07:00Thanks for the topic. I have been taking things sl...Thanks for the topic. I have been taking things slowly with my wife and at the beginning of the post thought that this would be too much to incorporate at this time - but as I continued to read along I was able to envision kneeling in front of her and can get a sense of how powerful that could be for both of us. Still a big step for me to think that I will go right home tonight and do it immediately but I will at least now be looking for the right opportunity.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com