tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post6418176013038950440..comments2023-10-24T10:09:19.477-07:00Comments on Worshipping Your Wife: Guest Post: LADY SUSAN—INTRODUCING DENNIS TO THE MATRIARCHAL LIFESTYLEMark Remondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-42455585569610641552015-09-16T11:18:56.934-07:002015-09-16T11:18:56.934-07:00She hasn't approved that, even as i've sug...She hasn't approved that, even as i've suggested to Her we could both do a joint blog. She approves me seeking support. Hopefully She'll find it in Herself to do that, but it's not my call.Wifeworshipperhttp://nanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-35045124314998134882015-09-11T21:47:02.149-07:002015-09-11T21:47:02.149-07:00A very sweet and inspiring comment, Wifeworshipper...A very sweet and inspiring comment, Wifeworshipper. I hope Lady Susan sees it. She is no longer posting on the blog, as you may know, since I have stopped publishing new posts. But I welcome any additional comments; or perhaps you will start a blog of your own, as your are very eloquent about the joys of Wife Led Marriages.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-90469016575724804822015-09-11T13:35:55.533-07:002015-09-11T13:35:55.533-07:00Lady Susan, my Wife and i have been in this since ...Lady Susan, my Wife and i have been in this since we dated and now that our kids are almost on their own, we've talked about finding a community (realistic) or maybe even creating one (which seems overwhelming) where we're around likeminded people. i can attest that while it has taken Her a lot of patience, we are now in the true "oneness identity" that marriage is supposed to be and my identity is lost into hers. I do the chores, or most of them, since we try to keep the kids aware they have responsibilities. She controls the money. It took some years and some learning from her to handle it to get over that and now I don't even ask for anything except gas to work. Our relax time is Her agenda. Nothing is more fun that shopping with her. Listening is exactly what women want it to be in our relationship. I listen to her problems not to fix like some men but to really listen. Unless she asked for solutions. This has become my passion and I hope we can find a place where we can look to retire, and continue to grow.Wifeworshipperhttp://nanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-61032811558589197972015-07-06T18:58:26.984-07:002015-07-06T18:58:26.984-07:00Awesome Lady Susan...Dennis was lucky to marry int...Awesome Lady Susan...Dennis was lucky to marry into a matriarchal family. As a natural sub who knows his place I envy him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-78305527068812100162015-07-06T15:44:13.453-07:002015-07-06T15:44:13.453-07:00I too, enjoyed Ms. Sophie's perspective. Than...I too, enjoyed Ms. Sophie's perspective. Thanks for sharing it.<br />Thanks also to Lady Susan for sharing her perspectives.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-72606440779967330612015-07-06T10:57:19.398-07:002015-07-06T10:57:19.398-07:00Sophie,
Thank You for Your kind reply. Well, it&...Sophie,<br /><br />Thank You for Your kind reply. Well, it's very difficult for me to think from a glorious Feminine perspective being a man, but I do my best always to learn from them. As Lady Susan said, "sexual performance" is a must for her man. Not sexual attraction because I do agree that we must be attracted to our partner, but I also realize the male can have certain problems sometimes especially if over 50..*smiles*<br />Regarding money, You seem have the best attitude regarding that the man should be dependent..*Big smile* it makes sense really if you think about it giving the woman 100 percent control over him. I really like Your points and im learning how to cook now in the kitchen, the bedroom is worked out already!carpadeimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01565184534632941746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-76050922580813851692015-07-05T23:32:52.649-07:002015-07-05T23:32:52.649-07:00Carpadeim,
The only way you will understand of wh...Carpadeim,<br /><br />The only way you will understand of why Women want boys to be submissive, sexual and rich is if you try to think from Their glorious Feminine perspective. Women are attracted to gorgeous sexual partners, be they men or Women. For you as a man, is it the same to have sex with a gorgeous Woman or one you don't find attractive. No. Well, neither is it for them. Does that explain? <br /><br />I am a Woman. I am not attracted to boys but I do like them to be obedient and good looking, which to me means not too masculine (or at all, if possible). <br /><br />I don't know why people would want their boys to provide them money, not that I don't understand the appeal money has but given a choice, boys should be dependent, not the ones who bring in the money. It's better for them to understand, in my opinion, that their place is more in the house -- especially in the kitchen and the bedroom. That is what they were put in this Earth for, but that doesn't mean they can't ever serve other purposes. Like any living creature, they are treasures put on this Earth for a higher purpose. In their case, the higher purpose are Women. They should be proud of that! <br /><br />So yes, obedient, good looking, and they should also be good cooks. Again, the bedroom and the kitchen!Sophienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-71705051272259364522015-07-05T11:56:06.840-07:002015-07-05T11:56:06.840-07:00Dear Lady Susan,
I'm very new at FLR and lik...Dear Lady Susan,<br /><br /><br />I'm very new at FLR and like my position. It feels right. Im only 2 months into it so far, and get aroused at the thought of making coffee for my wife every morning now. Knowing when I bring it into the bedroom, seeing her facial expressions knowing I'm serving her and serving her properly. I stand there until she takes her first sip waiting to see if everything meets her standards before I fix myself a cup. I recently purchased a cup for myself that states, "Husband in Training" I did this to show her. <br /><br />I respect Your judgment; however, I feel that money, sexual performance, and a willingness to comply is not justifiable and think only submission is most important. Performance can change for a man especially if he's older, but he can always use whatever toys, or other means t please his wife. Money is just over rated and should never be a factor because if one gets too dependent on it could be a problem in hard times. <br />carpadeimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01565184534632941746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-50391389418655090542015-07-04T12:45:44.125-07:002015-07-04T12:45:44.125-07:00While I highly respect Obedient Husband and Mistre...While I highly respect Obedient Husband and Mistress Kathy (of femdom101.blogspot.com), and am honored to have them as commenters, and while their ideals of Loving Female Authority are very close to my own, let me just say that successful and loving FLRs do not follow a single set of rules, but come in a wide variety from vanilla-esque to ultra-kinky. Dennis has eloquently defended the loving nature of his own submission in an earlier posting ("Are These Not Signs of Love?") and I venture to say that neither he nor Lady Susan feels that their way is the only way that femdom can or should be practiced. It's obviously not for everyone, but I don't see it as a reason to condemn it out of hand. And, of course, other voices are welcome here, not only as commenters, but as guest posters.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-45290638938156232592015-07-04T06:35:51.169-07:002015-07-04T06:35:51.169-07:00In my opinion this posting misses the point comple...In my opinion this posting misses the point completely. Femdom is modern society is about love, caring, and raising a family. It is not about manipulating men. It is about allowing men the freedom to be the person they want to be. The need of men to serve women is primal, and is part of God's plan for man kind. It more women simply allowed their husbands the privilege of siting at their feet, the world would be a better place. Along with love comes intimacy. This is what real women want in their relationships. KathyKathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07388565466269673134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-37652959179217598262015-07-03T16:14:58.723-07:002015-07-03T16:14:58.723-07:00Just an observation but this was an 865 word essay...Just an observation but this was an 865 word essay giving insights into what makes a great marriage.<br />It is interesting to me that the word "love" is used only 4 times.<br /><br />1. she speaks of dearly loving her former (late) husband<br />2. she implies/jokes that money is more important than love<br />3. she states that "a willingness to comply" is the "manifestation of love on the part of a man". <br />4. she states that "we women love manipulating men"<br /><br />Draw your own conclusions.<br />I'm in a female dominant marriage, but it is also one in which it is quite clear that my wife loves me very much.<br />It is very evident in both her words and actions.<br /><br />All these postings from Dennis and these two women........ it's really hard to feel the love.<br /><br />However, if they are happy........... who am I to judge?<br />I wonder what Dennis' funeral would look like?<br />The mood would probably be determined by the size of the LI policy.<br /><br />I must be one of the most fortunate submissive husbands on earth.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-47725418140475289062015-07-03T14:03:46.709-07:002015-07-03T14:03:46.709-07:00Lady Susan,
I very much enjoyed reading your words...Lady Susan,<br />I very much enjoyed reading your words. You run a much stricter household than my Mistress yet I can appreciate your stance, your rules and what it is you desire as a woman. It also helps to hear background to get a better perspective on topics both your daughter and her husband have written about in the past. I look forward to hearing more as you have time to write. Thank you!I'm-Hershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04303339046471886645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-15283497102106332472015-07-03T13:42:45.305-07:002015-07-03T13:42:45.305-07:00Lady Susan, I admire the way you and other women i...Lady Susan, I admire the way you and other women in your family run your households. Once it becomes well organized with set rules, this arrangement seems natural and easy to get used to, as you say. As a subordinate male who admires strong and confident women I love your attitude of superiority toward your husband and how his views don’t matter “in the larger scheme of things.” I think when we can overcome the social messages of patriarchy, that it will become the norm that women are better decision-makers and that men are better at taking care of the home. In your experience how well have other couples adapted to this sort of arrangement? What are the obstacles to be overcome?<br /><br />LSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com