tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post8898166820336349033..comments2023-10-24T10:09:19.477-07:00Comments on Worshipping Your Wife: Revisiting Vivian’s Domain, Part 4Mark Remondhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-44370433852848737832010-04-07T17:09:39.484-07:002010-04-07T17:09:39.484-07:00Vivian inspires a lot of comments, more than most ...Vivian inspires a lot of comments, more than most of my posts, and deservedly so. I am especially pleased by the endorsements of Lady Grey ("an amazing document") and Leslie ("fantastic article"), since they validate my own opinion. I think Vivian is a formidable writer and thinker... and I hope she contacts this blog. If so, perhaps she can even respond to KH/LDT's queries.Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-70133363916660647092010-04-07T12:46:15.850-07:002010-04-07T12:46:15.850-07:00My wife and I have a FLR and she loves the concept...My wife and I have a FLR and she loves the concept of orgasm management. She has been severly retricting my orgasms for 4 years now. I am allowed an orgasm every 6 weeks, but only if my wife has been pleased with my overall behavior. Otherwise more weeks are added, and I have gone for 3 months without orgasm several times so far. After the 6 weeks, if she has found my behavior to her liking, I may be allowed to enter her and orgasm in her. Other times she will rub me until I explode. <br /><br />During my wait time of 6 weeks she may allow me inside her for a certain number of strokes, and then I must pull out on her command. If I don't, or if I have an "accident' (none so far), then I have been told I will wait 6 months. If she has to add time, then she will instruct me to put on my cock cage, a chastity device, the CB 6000. She will then snap the little lock closed, and only she has the 3 keys. It will only be taken off once a week for cleaning and maybe for her playtime. Then an icepack and it goes back on for another week.<br /><br />This is the domestic discipline in our life, and it is VERY effective. We both wonder what other discipline Vivian uses on her husband when the time calls for it? What she does that is both moderate and more severe? Will her article be addressing this. Thanks Mark for taking the time to put this online for us.KHT/LDTnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-89752659792971182012010-04-06T17:19:54.941-07:002010-04-06T17:19:54.941-07:00Fantastic article, especially in the Golden Age of...Fantastic article, especially in the Golden Age of "He's Just Not That Into You."<br /><br />If this were common knowledge, domestic violence would decrease. Divorce rates would plummet. Frat boys the world over would become pinnacles of gentlemanly decorum. Overnight. (And it would be hilarious.)<br /><br />But, I'm glad Vivian mentioned that FLR isn't for everyone, because it's not. The uncompromising stance of female supremacy has probably frightened many a would-be domestic dominatrix. From what I've read so far, though, this article seems like a great primer. If I weren't sold on FLR already, it probably would've done the job. <br /><br />Thanks for posting it.Leslienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-46656797439671411222010-04-06T12:58:40.773-07:002010-04-06T12:58:40.773-07:00Lady Grey - understandably I can only answer your ...Lady Grey - understandably I can only answer your "what if?" question by adding a "what if?" proviso of my own -- that of being completely unattached, back in my bachelor days. In which case, my answer is that I would have agreed, and without much cogitation!Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-44425692231207121192010-04-06T12:48:40.270-07:002010-04-06T12:48:40.270-07:00Thank you for the kind words about my blog. I exp...Thank you for the kind words about my blog. I explored many D/s blogs before I actually decided to try my hand at it, and I'm enjoying it thoroughly. The responses have been uniformly positive, and it's nice to know that one isn't operating in a vacuum when one is revealing very personal details of a relationship.<br /><br />Your blog is quite extensive and uniformingly well written and informative. I can see that you love to ramble on, and your mind is obviously dedicated to a complete exploration of the male submissive concept. I applaud your efforts.<br /><br />I'll soon be continuing my saga, and welcome your input. And by the way, just what would you have done in Karl's place? I'm afraid - being who I am - that I must insist upon an answer:)Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-87130859456612644542010-04-06T09:28:09.058-07:002010-04-06T09:28:09.058-07:00Lady Grey, Thank you so much for stopping by and i...Lady Grey, Thank you so much for stopping by and introducing us to your wonderful blog, Woman in Control (http://womanincontrol.blogspot.com).<br />Your comments certainly validate my own reaction to Vivian's essay, which I think is quite formidable, an adjective that I think applies to you, as well, judging from the opening entries in your blog. I had been hoping to hear from the authoress herself, but I am equally gratified to hear from you. And, of course, I look forward to reading more about your marriage, vicariously savoring every anecdote and putting to myself the question that you posed at the end of the latest posting, "What would YOU do in Karl's place?"Mark Remondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12975488338051622549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203350475344374919.post-80160950188708198832010-04-06T04:32:15.951-07:002010-04-06T04:32:15.951-07:00This is quite an amazing document. Thank you very...This is quite an amazing document. Thank you very much for putting it on your blog. I know many women who would be well advised to read and follow this "how to" advice. <br /><br />Vivian's views on the power (and advantages) of controlling your male's orgasm are quite accurate, though I think she errs a bit with her basic antipathy toward chastity devices. Used properly, and sometimes alternatively with the "honor system", they constitute a very useful implement in said control.Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.com