Tuesday, July 13, 2021

BEAUTY AND POWER

 


(Editor's Note: This is excerpted and reprinted from “Revisiting Vivian’s Domain” on this website; see link below.)

The old paradigm paints femininity as soft and yielding. The female supremacist paradigm offers a complete role reversal—the imperious woman exercising complete dominion over the surrendered male.

This paradigm links beauty and power in a sustaining, lifelong synergy. A few specifics below: 

From Litia’s Journal:

“Now, I’m in My 50’s and gravity is winning more and more every day.... But in the eyes and mind of my husband, I am FAR, FAR, Superior to this beautiful young lady (see photo inset), because to him, I am his Goddess and I am the only one who knows exactly how and when he NEEDS to be punished and disciplined. I am his Queen, I am beautiful in his mind and eyes and he shows it to me EVERY Minute of EVERY day.
(Litia’s Journal

From Vivian’s Domain:


“A key component of every man’s sexuality is awe. When he sees a beautiful woman’s face or an attractive figure, he is drawn almost against his will. He is awestruck and overcome by that power. Have you ever noticed how men behave toward a beautiful woman? They fall all over themselves to please her in some way. Even when there is no way such behavior will result in a sexual experience, men become the willing servants of beauty.

“We see our husbands looking at other women as if they were goddesses and looking at us as if we were mere functionaries, striving to be helpful to women they hardly know and ignoring the needs of the woman who dedicates herself to him and his family. Sometimes we become angry and resentful of our husbands, knowing that it is simply not right that he looks at other women with the passion that rightfully belongs to us. Sometimes we get down on ourselves, feeling unattractive and taken for granted and cheated out of his affection.


“Although there are some exceptions (women who are so beautiful and remain so beautiful that they can inspire their husbands with that beauty even after years of marriage), for most women, even attractive ones, it is not possible after years of cohabitation and child-bearing to become beautiful enough to inspire the kind of awe that will motivate her husband. So, what can a woman do?


“She can understand this: Not only is there power in beauty, there is beauty in power! The ‘take my breath away’ kind of awe that a man feels when he sees a stunningly beautiful woman is similar to the feelings he had as a young adolescent toward women of power in his life—teachers, neighborhood moms, and strict women in general.

“In order to make your husband a better man and a better spouse, you need to make him eager to win your approval and fearful of earning your disapproval. You must exert the kind of power that grabs his attention, makes you beautiful to him and takes his breath away.”
(“Beauty and Power,” Vivian’s Domain

20 comments:

AdoresHisWife said...

Love this. Great to see you posting again Mark. Looking forward to seeing more.

Andrey said...

Mark, please for new articles! I want... it's really helpful. Regards!

Mark Remond said...

Andrey, thanks for the encouraging note. I do plan to post to this old blog from time to time.Thanks,Mark

Anonymous said...

What happened to Thomas lavalle's blog? It was a very good blog like this

Mark Remond said...

Unknown -- It seems that Thomas Lavalle is concentrating his efforts on writing femdom fiction and Tweeting about his titles and female supremacy in a general way. Blogs do seem to run their course after a few years, as bloggers turn their attentions elsewhere. It happened to me.

Anonymous said...

"There is beauty in power." There certainly is. When my girlfriend tells me to do something in a firm voice, I find it sexy. It is of course very exciting if she says "Do it now or I'll put you across my knee for a good spanking!" However, even without the threat of corporal punishment I find it arousing to submit to her.
Richard

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Anonymous said...

Yes, great to see a recent post, Mark! I am a husband just exploring this topic and it can be difficult to navigate the blogosphere given the turnover in sites out there. Many are dormant but are still nice to read through the archives...

I know your farewell post states that you are on to different interests, but as long as there are marriages growing stale out there, there is a need for the messages you've summarized in WYW! I'm going to have my wife read it this weekend!

Mark Remond said...

Unknown, yes, I agree with all that you write above. Yes, too bad in particular that Mistress Kathy of Femdom 101 has reached fulfillment on her blog, but she was a wonderful guide and clearinghouse for so many for so many years. Too bad all her past postings are not available. I may continue to post on my blog from time to time. And good luck on this weekend when your wife reads whatever you choose to show her. Be still my beating heart. As a wonderful submissive guy and guide once told me, We're all in this together!

Debra's son said...

Hope you keep posting when you can, Mark. You've definitely been missed.

Debra's son said...
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Thomas Lavalle said...

Debra’s Son — just sent you an email...

JDT said...

Is there a new blog?

JDT said...

Is there a new blog?

Mark Remond said...

Alas, no.

Jayyarajgopal. said...

It was a man's world..now after the advent of inter net,e mail and computers it has become a woman's world .women dominate in software ,finance ,banking,real estate ,and legal professions.men begin to occupy secondary role .
In social life FLR has been recognised and men work part time or occupy petty positions they are accepting women's leader ship and follow her .they are obeying her orders instantly ,do domestic chores ,attend to her needs and respect her. They have no say in major decisions like purchasing an apartment or buying a new car .but they are allowed to select a new iron vacumn cleaner ,a dish washer or a washing machine under her supervision .Even then male practice does not fade away in one day .he may and does resort to old ways like looking at beautiful women and day dreaming .he never looks up his face or appearance in mirror .or he never think how beautiful his wife was before marriage and forget how he dated her and finally knelt before her and proposed her .
In order to prevent h from straying away the following steps may be taken to keep her man in good form away from stray thoughts.
1) At home he should always wear an apron chosen by his wife or matriarch of the house .
2) He should daily genuflect before his wife and matriarch .
3)He should attend to her command at once .other wise raise your voice and warn him of consequences .
4)he should seek your permission for a drink ,or a pack of cigarettes or to go for laundry or grocery shopping .he should submit bills for checking to you .you must put questions before accepting the claim .
4).make your FLR relation public .at public places he should walk behind you .at restaurants you should order and then may allow him to order or you yourself may order for him !
5)he may accompany you while shopping .he should carry all the items and pay the bills at the counter
6) at home he should kneel before you at least once a day .it is his duty to clean your shoes and put it on your legs while leaving home .
7) he may become lethargic after a few years .you may send him to your aunts home or in laws home .he may come to know mre about doing domestic work .
8)never allow him to answer phones at home .he may indulge in gossip .it is sheer waste of time .
9) he should surrender his phone to you when he returns from work .
10) calls should not be allowed.to him .strangers calls may be screened .
11) he should seek your permission for making a call .he should not use phone for more than 5 minutes .
12) he should be allowed to read women's magazines and know about latest style and other women related things
13) iron services may be done in the living room so that when friends visit they may know who is wearing the pant at home
14);any work entrusted to him should be done perfectly .if it is not satisfying asik him to do again and again until he achieves perfection and it is what you wanted .
15) never allow him any money .his salary may directly go into your account him .allow him weekly allowance of 20dollars .at week ends he should.submit accounts to you .
16 ) review his work on a weekly basis .you should point out the deficiency in service,his mistakes etc .teach him about perfection .he should seek your apology for the mistakes .you may warn him or levy fine on him or ask him to forego previlleges .
For major offences like dis respectful behaviour caning or leather slapper may be used .
These strict rules and training may make him a good husband .he may not have any intention to look at other women .
Let all the.men follow these rules and make.life enjoyable in FLR.
Let us be benefitted from our women .let us be sincere ,obey ,rever and adore our wives .let us surrender to her .

Mark Remond said...

Quite an excellent and comprehensive list, Jayyarajgopal. I salute you. You either are, or will surely make, an excellent subhusband!

Jayyarajgopal. said...

Your friend sams posting (it's holiday time for women and another post are excellent.i was very much pressed by his experience with women .
Will you please get some more posting from him and publish for my bene fit .

Jayyarajgopal. said...

In FLR relations I had written about the various rules which man or husband should follow.in addition to obedience ,respect and serving a man must have the following essential qualities.1)
Under any circumstances he should not become emotional.
2)against all odds he should not get angry.
3)he should be patient to the core.
4)he should maintain unprovocative qualities.
The above mentioned qualities will make him a good ,lovely and trusty worthy annd sincere husband .
Now I will write about one incident which happened some time ago.
Once my wife had gone to her office and my mother in law has undertaken a pleasant trip to Greece with my mother and my elder sister.the phone bell rings .(in our house I was not allowed to attend to any calls when my mother or my MIL was present.)now I attend the phone and it is my wife.she tells me to bring immediately a pair of.shoes .I abruptly leave my work of vacumning and collect a pair of shoes from her wardrobe that will match her today's dress.
I reached my wife's office at the 7th.floor .my wife's assistant knows me and.she ushered me into her large room .I put my bag aside and bow to her.she nods her head .there are6 executives attending a conference presided over by my wife my wife is seated in a huge rotating chair and the rest are seated in armed cushioned chairs ..my wife had not asked me to sit down .there was no armed chair or stool in the room .so I stood behind my wife for half an hour .
Now she orders me to remove the broken heels show.i immecdiately obeys by saying yes Madame .I kneel beside her andand remove her pair of shoes .I take out a small towel from my bag and clean her feet .i.immerse towel in water and clean her feet .i hold her feet in my legs and do massage for 5 minutes .later I kiss her feet with reverence and put on the shoe which I brought from home .then I placed the old shoe in my bag and got ready to move .allthe while the 6 executives were watching me with enthusiasm one of them remarked "Madame is boss at work and boss at home " and smiled .they then left the room .I readied my bag and bowed to my wife and said "thank you Madame for allowing me to serve you " and left her office .
I returned home .I did what I was told.to do .I immediately obeyed my wife's command and served her extremely well .I don't bother who is watching me .I am proud to serve my wife in public.places amidst known or un known persons .my wife's satisfaction and pleasure are my goal .to satisfy her and to make her.happy I am ready to work .I serve my mistress to her satisfaction .
My motto is

1)wife is my goddess.
2)kitchen is my loveable place in the home .
3)home is my place to adore my wife .
4) wife is my goddess.

Jayyarajgopal. said...

Around 7'o clock my wife returned home .I removed her shoes and gave a foot rub .I served coffee and sat at her feet on the floor .
Soon I readied her shower .she returned wearing a satin khaftan .I was preparing breakfast for her in the kitchen .my wife to her mother and narrated today's experiences .my wife expressed satisfaction with my work and mil informed that she will be returning the next day with my mother and my sister.she also talked with my mother .both the conversations were made via speaker phone .my mother asked my wife whether I had phoned to her before leaving home anhd.made a call after reaching home .my wife replied in negative.she also asked my wife whether she had inspecter her wounded heel .my mother told her to keep the shoes intact and she will make an inspection .
A sort of bewilderment overtook me .